As a parent we have a responsibility to raise our children to become valuable contributing members of society.

A responsibility that requires us to invest time, energy, effort and a lot of care.

We offer a 12 week self-coaching Parenting Basics Programme that will assist you in creating more time, fun, laughter and love for your child as well as for yourself!

To determine whether you can benefit from our coaching programme answer the following questions:

• Do you often feel overwhelmed, uncertain, stressed?
• Do you find yourself often raising your voice or having to punish your child?
• Do you feel bad about not spending enough quality time with your child?
• Do you wish your child arrived with an operating manual called “successfully proven do’s and don’ts for raising a happy, well-adjusted child”?

If you have answered “yes” to any of the above you will benefit from the Parenting Basics Coaching Programme.

It will provide you with practical tools to:

• provide a stable environment for your child
• be patient, kind and tolerant in challenging times
• improve your child's willingness to co-operate
• improve your child's ability to contribute to the family environment
• improve your understanding of your child and how they are feeling
• improve the communication between you and your child

Our NewClearEnergy 12 Week Parenting Basics Programme addresses fundamental elements  that  will improve any relationship.  it also provides you with specific tools  and skills enhancement processes that will ensure  a loving, happy, successful relationship with your child.

The Programme addresses the following:

• Session 1:  Boost Your Relationship With Your Child Immediately: We address a key factor that determines your child's belief and trust in you as an adult and a parent.
• Session 2:  What you need to know about interacting with your child that no one tells you about: All too often we assume and expect our children to understand us, however,  there are 3 key factors that prevent children from doing what we ask and from applying what we teach them.  In this session we look at these 3 underlying factors and how they effect your relationship with your child and your child's ability to do well in life.
• Session 3:  Reactions and Responses: We look at constructive and destructive thought, speech and actions and how to shift to being more constructive.
• Session 4:  Our tolerance levels according to our emotions: We look at how you behave and how you parent according to your emotions.  We also look at how you can accurately predict what your child is feeling according to their behaviour, and what you can do to support them.
• Session 5:  The 3 Ways of Handling Children: 1 of the 3 ways is constructive, the other 2 are destructive.  And most parents employ the other 2 far too often.  We also look at how you need to interact with your child to get their agreement and increase their willingness to co-operate.
• Session 6: Master your Time: In this session we look at what you could do to create more quality time for your child. A must for any parent in our challenging modern day environment!
• Session 7:  Empower Your Child to Control Their Environment: We look at the importance of this as a skill and how you can go about doing it in a fun way that will build the child's confidence, trust and willingness.
• Session 8:  Why Your Child HAS to Work or Contribute: In the 'busyness' of living many parents are inclined to give their child what they want because they feel bad about not spending enough quality time with the child.  This is the worst thing you can do for your child.  We look at the effects this causes and how to handle it so that everyone is happy and works together as a team.
• Session 9:  House Rules: We look at the importance of them and how to ensure your child understands them.
• Session 10:  Working With Children to Self-Discipline: How do you interact with your child such that they begin to discipline themselves?!
• Session 11:  Keeping Agreements: We look the importance of our agreements with children and their agreements with us. We address the ‘why’ and ‘how to’ of keeping agreements.
• Session 12: How To Communicate Effectively With Your Child: We look at how to interact with your child so that you understand one another.  We also look at the main reason your child would shut down and not tell you things that are important to them.  We address how to interact with them to regain their willingness and to get them to share their thoughts, opinions and feelings.

To find out about workshops or for further information on the self-coaching programme contact Brenda:

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Tel: +27 82 443 4721 / +27 21 434 3184